The Two-Column
Exercise
The two-column exercise is an exercise we
teach people to use with executives in our executive
program. It has
been shown through experience that development both horizontally and
vertically requires self-reflection, self-correction and self-coaching.
In order to create this kind of activity, we can use a simple transcript
of a coaching session we have been involved in where some executive
issue/problem or opportunity has been discussed, either directly with the
coach or indirectly through the coach about another incident.
Here's a typical way the Two-column exercise is used:
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Two-Column Assignment
This excerpt came from
here
The overall aim of this exercise is to help you see your own
reasoning and actions in a new light. If you are successful in your
attempt to see things more productively, then, theory suggests, you
will be able to act more productively.
- Select an interpersonal situation that you have been involved
with during the past month or two that was difficult for you in
some respect or other. Perhaps the interaction itself was
difficult. Perhaps you regret something that you said or did.
Perhaps you regret the outcome that was produced - the Abilene
Paradox again. Some typical examples include:
- you can't reach agreement with your close associates (e.g.,
work- or room-mates)
- someone else is not pulling his or her weight
- you believe you are being treated unfairly
- you believe your point of view is being ignored or
discounted
- the rest of your group or organization is resisting a change
you want to implement
- you believe your group is not paying enough attention to the
most crucial problem
- Write a brief paragraph describing the situation. What
are/were you trying to achieve? Who or what is/was blocking you?
What is/was at stake?
- Describe the interaction itself. To do this, first divide one
or more sheets of paper down the middle. Record what you and the
other actually said in the right-hand column. Record what you were
thinking and feeling, but perhaps did not say, in the left-hand
column.
Tip: If you are working with a word processor, use the table
function to create the two columns.
Here are two examples of two-column cases:
The Two-Column Case exercise is the invention of Chris Argyris
and Don Schön. An early version of it appears in their 1974 book
Theory in Practice: Increasing Professional Effectiveness.
Argyris uses it in several other books including: Reasoning,
Learning and Action; Action Science; Knowledge for
Action; and Overcoming Organizational Defenses. The
version printed here is modeled after Rick Ross and Art Kleiner
[1994. The Left-Hand Column. p. 246 ff. in Senge, Peter, Charlotte
Roberts, Richard Ross, Bryan Smith and Art Kleiner. The Fifth
Discipline Fieldbook: Strategies and Tools for Building a Learning
Organization. Currency Doubleday, NY.] |
Developmental Coaching
The best way to create a two-column
exercise for developmental coaching is to have the client read or listen
to their session and take notes in a two-column format--left for their
comments; right for the actual session--on how they were feeling or
thinking at the time when it was going on, as well as providing comments
as they reflect now about what they said. Most of the time, it
requires a transcript or audio recording to be available within a
reasonable period of time.
One of the ways Argyris tries to get
people to use the Two-column exercise is to recall a specific conversation
where something specifically occurred that either went wrong or didn't go
according to plan. He also recommends the two-column for use when
conducting a strategy session ahead of time. Placing what you
think will happen on the right.
Here's an excerpt from Teaching Smart
People to Learn, HBR, May-June 1991
In a paragraph or so, the CEO
described the meeting he intended to have with his direct reports to
address the problem. Next, he divided the paper in half, and on
the right-hand side of the page, he wrote a scenario for the
meeting--much like the script for a movie or play--describing what he
would say and how his subordinates would likely respond. On the
left-hand side of the page, he wrote down any thoughts or feelings that
he would be likely to have during the meeting, but that he wouldn't
express for fear they would derail the discussion.
But instead of holding the meeting,
the CEO analyzed this scenario with his direct reports. The
case became the catalyst for a discussion in which the CEO learned
several things about the way he acted with his management team.
There are many ways to utilize the two-column exercise in developmental
coaching with executives and all of them listed are effective in creating
the opportunity to test assumptions, reflect on one's self objectively and
to discover what it is you're doing that can be sub-optimizing your
relationships.
Here's a brief example from one of the
session I audio-taped with an executive I was working with:
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Client's Reflections on the session in a Two-column exercise |
Actual coaching session |
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coach:
How are we doing? |
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Observation: This sure doesn’t read very well. Do I come across
this disjointed?
Here I’m providing an orientation to Mike for this discussion.
I’m giving background to provide context for what I am talking about
– why I am discussing this.
I am trying to help him make meaning of what I am telling him. |
client:
Well we’re doing great Mike Some real insights this week to maybe
put some things together You know I think the last two weeks we’ve
been getting at some things about one I’m not as empathetic as I’d
like to be particularly when I get stressed I think one of the
things that gets to me is ambiguity and I feel like water and keep
things kind of tide up so when things aren’t very clear to me I
don’t understand things I get stressed and then I turn off outside
and kind of disconnect from people and retreat in to myself. Well,
I had the opportunity to go through a day of assessments and the
assessments I completed were the Burkman assessments and it’s pretty
interesting. It really kind of connected some dots for me and at
the same it left me at a loss and I’d like to talk about that
tonight the Dots were my usual behavior tends be creative I tend to
be a bit on the people side and indirect communication vs. task and
indirect communication Not a big surprise |
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Order, clarity, organization is important to me – that is my logic –
sequential thinking, if not cause and effect analysis. |
Typically
that’s where I tend to be Usual behavior. Also it’s close to the
task side and indirect communication in some ways it’s close to but
I’m not completely into that quadrant very organized orderly linear
thinking I like logic I like things to be to be nice and neat I’m
not quite in there but I’m very close to that. And I think that
really kind of connected the dots for me
My style when
under stress is to go direct communication task oriented and
basically just kind of turn off I run over people’s feelings that’s
a common characteristic of this style kind of get real focused and
almost ignore people. Just get very busy and for me that often looks
like busy internally.
Now what do I
do with all that?
The issue
tonight is how can I work on that?
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Can I really change my behavior? How easy or
hard will it be? Should I even work on this? Here I’m looking for
answers from Mike or at least questions to help me consider the
importance and implications of taking action.
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I think there are some things that
are maybe that’s just the way we are our personality is kind of set
and something maybe are open to change I’m wondering if that’s not
just kind of set behavior and if it is can I do anything about it
and if I can do something about it to stop the behavior how do I go
about changing that?
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I encourage people to try out the
two-column exercise in their own developmental journey, it is amazing what
results will come from this kind of work. |